You may be right, but I don't like the implication that "masculinity" would somehow be neutral, and that only a part of it would somehow be toxic. I feel like it's an easy cop out for people who prize masculinity not to have to examine themselves since they can hand-wave it as not being the bad "toxic masculinity" kind.

So I'm definitely favoring accuracy over palatability, because otherwise it becomes yet another cause easy to get behind without having to do anything about it.