As I plan for a job change, I'm also planning for times beyond that. I think I'm going to have a will drawn up. I don't have any known illness to prompt it, but still.

The truth is, (1) I changed a song on my list for my memorial after I'm gone, and (2) I know that 2nd son #sonTwo is the only family member who would follow my instructions, so I want to ensure that he's in charge.

Related: there's some custody / support paperwork that I want to clean up. Now that he's 35, it really does not matter, but I wouldn't want to give any excuse to someone who wishes to overrule my own wishes.