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  1. clacke: inhibited exhausted pixie dream boy πŸ‡ΈπŸ‡ͺπŸ‡­πŸ‡°πŸ’™πŸ’› (clacke@libranet.de)'s status on Thursday, 21-Dec-2023 09:01:02 EST clacke: inhibited exhausted pixie dream boy 🇸🇪🇭🇰💙💛 clacke: inhibited exhausted pixie dream boy πŸ‡ΈπŸ‡ͺπŸ‡­πŸ‡°πŸ’™πŸ’›

    I love when people spontaneously acknowledge each other as people they look up to and appreciate.

    I see it in the office when it's colleagues praising each other for "no reason" because they just haven't said it and it had to be said, like "oh thanks, that helps a lot, well, you always come through, always helpful, you should know that, but thanks again".

    But of course with people who are seen more often, celebrities, it's also easier to happen to witness, and I feel like it's becoming more common? I'm not talking courtesy like "yeah, I was working with NN in this movie, such a great director", but someone already a superstar for years, a professional doing a hundred shows per year, meeting someone and getting obviously starstruck and gushing with very specific praise from them as a fellow performer, or front people lifting up their writers and crediting them.

    A lot of the climate out there has become nastier, people taking pot shots on social media, political campaigns more negative than ever, but I feel like there's also been a rise in sincere public acts of kindness and warmth.

    Is anyone else seeing this?

    In conversation Thursday, 21-Dec-2023 09:01:02 EST from libranet.de permalink
    1. clacke: inhibited exhausted pixie dream boy πŸ‡ΈπŸ‡ͺπŸ‡­πŸ‡°πŸ’™πŸ’› (clacke@libranet.de)'s status on Thursday, 21-Dec-2023 09:10:59 EST clacke: inhibited exhausted pixie dream boy 🇸🇪🇭🇰💙💛 clacke: inhibited exhausted pixie dream boy πŸ‡ΈπŸ‡ͺπŸ‡­πŸ‡°πŸ’™πŸ’›
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      If it's not kindness and ability to praise as desirable traits moving into the mainstream, do I have some selective bias in what kinds of interviews I'm watching?

      Or is this just the next step in the evolution of both fan/celebrity culture and sincere-seeming insincere flattery? More parasocial relationships and better trained psychopaths?

      I don't think I saw celebrities being fans of celebrities or praising people not currently in the room in the 80s and 90s.

      In conversation Thursday, 21-Dec-2023 09:10:59 EST from libranet.de permalink
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