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1. lnxw48a1 (lnxw48a1@nu.federati.net)'s status on Monday, 29-Jan-2024 21:07:11 EST lnxw48a1
   I told #GD2 about her cousin #GS3’s asteroid livestream viewing experience. She was happy for him. I tell you, I really love that she’s not jealous over the attention her cousin gets. Honestly, I do try to give every one of the grandkids a similar high level of attention, but (1) life gets in the way, (2) as they get older and gain their own communications devices, relationship is a two-way street, (3) until that point, it is dependent on parental effort as much as it is on grandparent effort.
   1. lnxw48a1 (lnxw48a1@nu.federati.net)'s status on Monday, 29-Jan-2024 21:11:12 EST lnxw48a1

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      For example, #GD2’s brother #GS2 is 25 years old. If I send a birthday or Christmas gift, I receive a thank you note. If I send greetings on New Year’s Day or Independence Day, I’ll receive a response. Other than that, he doesn’t communicate. And because he’s well able to communicate if he chooses, his non-communication means that I’m only rarely willing anymore to make an effort outside of certain special days.