I know you mean well, but... is it really reasonable to shame anyone for not having implemented certain important features in a program, if you haven't implemented those features in that program either? that they're busy with other things as much as you are, and you call them out as ableist, does that make you a virtue-signalling ableist? it sounds like you're trying to impose your standards on others, and that's not how free software dynamics work, as you know. if I were to demand you to implement features that are important or even essential to me, while you're already struggling to get to other features you identify as strategically more urgent, budgeted and planned, would you find that cool? screaming and shaming might compel others to tend to issues you care about, but it's still a form of coercion. IMHO that's not really cool, even if well-meaning and caring.