This day. I went to her new home and knocked on the door. She didn't hear so I texted "I'm here." It would have come up under "Mum".
When she moved out I made her up a box of kitchen things, with all the mugs that are hers. So in her new home she made me tea in her Niagara Falls mug and I remembered visiting there with her when she turned sixteen.
When I left we didn't know how to say goodbye, standing in the doorway of her new home.