I've had to unfollow a few people because I am really turned off by their smugness when it comes to downplaying users issues when it comes to harassment and how they choose to deal with it.
As a cishet dude that happens to be Black, I get my fair share of harassment, but I'm kind of petty, so I go at their necks.
However, everyone is not like me. And respecting another experience means LISTENING when they have a complaint that may or may not affect you.