Notices by Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi), page 14

Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 20:44:55 EDT Chris
- Chris
- Xenon Fiber
@xenon +1 on that

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 20:42:10 EDT Chris
- Laurelai Bailey
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@Laurelai I did not, and now I hate that I have, thanks

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 20:37:22 EDT Chris
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- applebaps
@applebaps it's really sad that some people feel like they can't get excited about the things they love. I don't think I could put myself through that.

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applebaps (applebaps@anarchism.space)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 11:33:40 EDT applebaps
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psa: it's okay and attractive and very good to like things and get excited about the things you like and know a lot about them

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Maeve (acrata@anarchism.space)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 19:49:51 EDT Maeve
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#Youtube content providers sue the company and its parent company #Google over alleged discrimination and censoring of #LGBTQ providers. Youtube is purported to tell a provider LGBTQ content was "shocking" and sexually explicit, thereby violating company usage rules https://www.bbc.com/news/business-49353220

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 19:10:19 EDT Chris
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- null process fox
@violet Can you try logging out of fedi and/or restarting chrome? I’ve found that occasionally the app would get an instant redirect without actually going through the login process, which fed it a blank access token.

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 19:08:01 EDT Chris
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- null process fox
@violet distro doesn't really matter as much as the flexibility provided. If needed I could:

- write my own library
- make that library a dependency
- build via flatpak

Without issue. I couldn't do that if I needed to rely on distros.

In addition, flatpak simply makes things easier to reproduce and diagnose.

Sorry for trying to convince you of this. Lets get to the issue at hand: when copying the mimetype info, does that mean you copied the desktop file and the service file?

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 18:51:26 EDT Chris
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- null process fox
@violet Same thing for the rust parts. As things stablize in Rust and land in the flatpak Freedesktop SDK I intend to use them if needed. Because of this, building with distro dependencies doesn’t work out

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 18:47:17 EDT Chris
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- null process fox
@violet it’s less about the sandboxing and more about the dependencies - this is a fairly fast moving project, and tends to use new widgets as they land in libhandy or fixes in other upstream libs.

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 18:41:43 EDT Chris
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- null process fox
@violet flatpak is the recommended way to install it. If you want to get started quickly, I’d recommend downloading the flatpak bundle from the latest CI artifacts and installing that.

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 18:39:29 EDT Chris
- Chris
- null process fox
@violet sort-of. You can have an installed, unbroken version on your system. This will not be effected by your development changes. Due to the way the login process works, the app needs to be installed in order for DBus and related plumbing to know how to redirect back to the app. I chose this for a better UX when logging in.

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 17:22:09 EDT Chris
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- Lili Saintcrow
- Chris
@lilithsaintcrow this is great, and I really wish more communities took steps to oust abusers.

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Lili Saintcrow (lilithsaintcrow@raggedfeathers.com)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 17:15:20 EDT Lili Saintcrow
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"So the focus shifts from removing bad actors to reducing conflict, with the rationalization that conflict is the real problem." https://gomakemeasandwich.wordpress.com/2019/08/14/gencon-2019-learned-community-helplessness-and-the-benefits-of-actually-banning-predators/
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  GenCon 2019, learned community helplessness, and the benefits of actually banning predators
  
  By wundergeek from Go Make Me a Sandwich
  
  Important Preamble
  
  Despite the fact that I have been attending GenCon every year for around fourteen years, I hadn’t planned on attending GenCon this year, and was sort of shocked when things ended up such that I was able to go. See, about four or five years ago was when Z, my long-time harasser and a huge part of why I shut this blog down in 2016, began attending GenCon. And despite being a known serial harasser who oozed toxicity and had been responsible for harassing dozens of people out of the games industry and community, for more than a decade people just sort of shrugged their shoulders and enabled his abuse by saying things like “you have to separate art from artist” or “removing Z would be censorship”.
  
  That is, if they didn’t outright deny the reality of those who spoke publicly about Z’s abuse – a feat which required no small amount of mental gymnastics, given that even the people I met who described Z as a friend would always begin their descriptions of him as “sure, he’s an asshole, but…”
  
  Anyway. So Z started going to GenCon, and worse than that, he started winning LOTS of Ennies for his games. (Ennies are like the oscars of TTRPGs, with everything that implies about awards handed out by a community of mostly old white dudes.) I started having panic attacks in the lead up to GenCon, panic attacks that got worse every year. In 2018 Z was nominated for (and won) four Ennies, and I had two weeks of devastating panic attacks leading up to the convention that only partially abated when I promised myself that 2018 would be my last year. I love GenCon more than I can possibly articulate, but the thing that I loved was harming me, and I needed to not repeat the mistakes I made in 2016 by continuing on a course of action that was harming me because of a misguided need to “win”.
  
  So 2018 was the year I said goodbye GenCon.
  
  From 2018: Goodbye you weird fucking UFO-thing. I don’t know why I love you, but I do.
  
  Because it was going to be my last year, I made lunch and dinner appointments with various movers and shakers in the TTRPG industry outside of my usual circles and I told them my story. I told them about how I was being forced out of a community space that I loved because of someone who everyone knew was toxic and bad for the community. And universally, the reaction from the influencers I talked with was sympathetic but bewildered refusal to actually do anything or take a stand.
  
  You see, my story was so sad, so sad. And obviously I didn’t deserve any of what happened to me, and clearly I shouldn’t be punished for my abuser’s actions. It’s just too bad that absolutely. Nothing. Could. Be. Done. Because what could possibly be done about someone like Z? What action could possibly be taken to protect the people he victimized in order to make them feel safe in existing in this community space? What a mystery. What a complete and total mystery. Truly a mystery for the ages that may never be solved.
  
  …if I sound salty about it, it’s because I am.
  
  But then February happened – and four brave women who should not have had to retraumatize themselves in public for us to do something bravely spoke out with credible accusations of domestic abuse, sexual assault, and rape. And finally. FINALLY. Z was canceled.
  
  So, GenCon 2019 was back in the cards.
  
  At the convention
  
  Coming back after I thought I had said goodbye to GenCon forever was a wild ride. It was a bit embarrassing running into people that I had told about my situation last year, assuming that I wasn’t ever going to meet them again – especially those who weren’t familiar with everything that had happened with Z in February. I was a goddamn mess in 2018, and I even complained to (a really super nice and super decent) publisher from Korea who I met for all of five minutes last year – which made it all the more mortifying when he saw me this year and remembered who I was and was really very nice.
  
  Social awkwardness aside, however, this year was an overwhelmingly positive and recharging experience, untainted by fear, anxiety, trauma, or panic attacks. Not having to worry about Z completely transformed how I experienced GenCon!
  
  In previous years, I spent lots of time and energy making plans for how to avoid the places Z would be, and emergency plans for what to do if I ran into him. I made sure I had refills of my emergency meds for panic attacks. I made lists of names of friends, phone numbers, and where they could be found at the convention if something happened and I needed to be around someone safe. I made maps of the dealer’s room with the booth Z was working at so that I knew which section of the dealer’s room to avoid. All of this was important to help me deal with the anxiety and panic attacks that the idea of being in the same spaces as Z caused, and I got used to anxiety and panic attacks being part of my GenCon prep.
  
  This year, the convention snuck up on me! I’d gotten so used to panic attacks being my “it’s time to think about GenCon GM prep” alarm that I didn’t do any of my prep until about two days before I left for the convention. Neither did I have a single panic attack, although I still had the usual anxiety dreams about forgetting to run my games and getting kicked out of the convention. (Anxiety is a cruel mistress.) And at the con the vibe was so relentlessly, uniformly excited and positive, without the usual undercurrent of simmering resentment about our community’s enabling of known abusers.
  
  …seriously, the number of years I’ve gone to the Diana Jones Awards only to have 50% or greater of my conversations there be about how bullshit it was that Z had been nominated for so many Ennies… The dude occupied a lot of mental real estate!
  
  But none of that was clear until Sunday of the convention, and a pithy observation made by a dear friend who happens to be a cishet white guy over lunch. He quipped that it was great that ‘the toxic cloud had lifted’, and that everyone he talked to had been having an equally positive experience of the convention. The metaphor was so striking, because it precisely described my experience. It highlighted the emotional reality of something that I had always known intellectually: when you remove predators from your community, the entire community benefits.
  
  So why? WHY did it take so long for the community to act when the benefits were so clear and so widespread?
  
  The learned helplessness inherent in “there’s nothing to be done”
  
  There has been a lot of ink spilled about the problem of Geek Social Fallacies in geekdom, the first of which is that “ostracizers are evil”. And of course, the Geek Social Fallacies are still very endemic in gaming spaces. It creates a reluctance to remove people from communities, even for the best of reasons – because excluding people makes you a bad person. So the focus shifts from removing bad actors to reducing conflict, with the rationalization that conflict is the real problem.
  
  However, this is the logic that inevitably sees abusers enabled, if not rewarded with status and position, while their victims – usually marginalized people – are run out of the community. This happens either tacitly, when marginalized victims “pro-actively” opt not to participate in communities that include their abusers. However, it also happens more actively – when victims of prominent abusers speak their truth and are actively run out of a community for creating conflict. When you make excluding people an unforgiveable sin, the only way to keep a community energized and active is to persecute people who question the unjust structures that protect abusers.
  
  And of course, the people who are most vigorous in persecuting marginalized people who question the unjust status quo are those with the most privilege, who naturally don’t see anything hypocritical about holding the belief that “ostracizers are evil” while actively ostracizing marginalized victims of abuse. Because these “defenders of the community” are inevitably cishet white dudes with an extraordinary amount of unexamined privilege who have convinced themselves that the childhood bullying they experienced for their geeky interests is exactly the same as the experiences of marginalization faced by queer people, women, people of color, and people from other marginalized groups.
  
  These assumptions calcify into immutable laws that create patterns of behavior, patterns that long-term members of the community have seen repeat endlessly, with little to no variation in the ultimate results. And this endless cycle creates learned helplessness even in those who are aware enough to realize the injustice being perpetrated, because it all feels too big to be changed. What could possibly be done that hasn’t been tried before? What could be done to make this time, this instance not another repetition in the endless cycle? People, especially people with privilege, become so mired in that sense of futility that they lose sight of the incredibly obvious answer, the answer that victims of abuse have been shrieking all along:
  
  REMOVE. PREDATORS. FROM. YOUR. COMMUNITIES.
  
  The inability of communities to see this solution is willful blindness. Because when someone is a known abuser, there are always people agitating for that person’s removal.
  
  In the case of Z, we knew what he was. Dozens of people spoke about his abuse for more than a decade. We begged for the community to take us seriously and to stop empowering his abuse. But we were the ones who were prosecuted. We were told we were lying. We were demonized for not being “nice” about our abuse. We were told we were the real problem, because we were the ones creating conflict.
  
  But when push came to shove, when the community finally, FINALLY came together and removed Z, EVERYONE BENEFITED. Not just his victims, not just marginalized people, but everyone. Even my friend, the cishet white guy who was never directly targeted by Z, could notice and enthuse on the new positive dynamic created by Z’s removal! Because removing predators from communities creates a space where people feel safe and included, and safe, inclusive communities attract enthusiastic participation. And when that happens, the community as a whole benefits. How could it not?
Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 17:08:11 EDT Chris
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- foggy
@foggy it’s run by a transphobe, alexgleason.

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Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 13:25:13 EDT Chris
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- Drífa Jónsdóttir :kitty_trans:
@drifa wait, smart ovens are a thing?

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Drífa Jónsdóttir :kitty_trans: (drifa@yiff.life)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 11:22:08 EDT Drífa Jónsdóttir :kitty_trans:

"Smart ovens have been turning on overnight and preheating to 400 degrees": https://www.theverge.com/2019/8/14/20802774/june-smart-oven-remote-preheat-update-user-error
Note the manufacturer's response: must be user error.
Bzzzzt.
A high-heat appliance turning on unattended is a big safety problem: fires start that way. If your user interface is such that multiple users are having that happen, it isn't the user that's at fault, it's your shitty user interface.
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  Smart ovens have been turning on overnight and preheating to 400 degrees
  
  from The Verge
  
  June Oven owners are reporting preheating incidents
Chris (brainblasted@social.libre.fi)'s status on Thursday, 15-Aug-2019 13:23:54 EDT Chris
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@tindall no prob :) Is it okay if I link to this thread on my tracking issue?

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