Notices by 🏵️ virtualice 🏵️ (cobaltvelvet@octodon.social), page 44

im too high and just realized the meat i ate was meat what do i do send help

the Very Smol Telescope

@25519 this time it was the other way around

i did a overcomplicated invoicing thing and there's just messy code everywhere and weird hacks and relations

it has good parts but mostly it's fulfilling constraints that didn't exist

one of the worst things is building something way too generalized or dynamic and giving up because of how convoluted it became

a good thing is realizing the simple solution is probably just better

intense hacking is like hacking but the character is about to thicken the plot

[intense hacking in the background]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bV-hSgL1R74

@staticsafe @pony we need the phpbb *theme*

@webmind and i think it's just shitty to make absurd jokes about a fight you're not fighting. kind of insulting, even.

@webmind what am i redefining?

it feels so terrible to spend years trying to explain people i can be a girl and that not being a perfect girly stereotype is okay, and it's a spectrum and everyone can be anywhere on it in different ways

for then someday someone who will never do any kind of transition to "identify as" an object and declare it a gender.

*this* destroys everything we're working for and trying to survive. it's turning our education effort into an absurd joke.

@webmind well you're the one insisting about experience, why? I don't and won't care about who has their feeling hurt the more and for whatever reason, and you're right it's non comparable; my priority always will be actions done against people.

people turning a movement for the survival of a group into a petty social game that supports the awful things we were fighting against in the first place

glorifying gender always hurt people, even if you make it rainbow-colored

@webmind whether it's a passionate hateful murder or not putting enough precision in a personal title is a huge difference honestly

@webmind i think the point exactly is comparing practical issues because comparing emotional experiences is endless; transphobia isn't about having your feeling hurt and must not be summed or described by that.

@webmind again it's not so much about who is it worse but who has it at all, and the kind of support those who don't bring us. it's too often negative and purposely ignorant all our practical problems.

@webmind it's not so much about it being just worse for some, but very different: the point being i don't consider displaying your gender as much of a right, but as a social game mostly for privileged people. i don't care if they lose at it and certainly can't consider it an oppression, especially when i know people who died because they were forced to be a part of it.