@HerraBRE Just wanted to come back and add that I like reading your occasional updates about your family and it's clear you're a thoughtful husband, dad, and son!
Social media can be a tough balance in a lot of ways but I feel like despite all we're still figuring out as a species, openness about our loves & loyalties & positive feelings as well as the more difficult parts of life can be really good overall. I do hope you'll keep sharing the random details. ๐
@HerraBRE Sorry man. It's a really good sentiment which shouldn't be squelched. There's just sooo much emotional baggage out there. :/
FWIW I weighed not sending my response but I felt it might be better to send it because I would want to be aware, I guess? Maybe that was my own emotional baggage making the decision for me, though.
By all means, do exactly what you said you were gonna do and more. If I had a mom that was there for me I certainly would. No doubt.
@HerraBRE Except if mom is a narcissist, in which case she'll do all the prep work by declaring your birthday as actually being *her* birthday for the above stated reasons.
(I'm honestly not trying to be needlessly contrary here, but the "it's actually *my* birthday since I gave birth to you" is depressingly common among narcissistic mothers, so it may be good to be aware of this and the resulting emotional context when bringing the subject up.)
stop leaking information has a lot of implications in social dynamic analytics.
example: the information that I follow someone is metadata that can be useful, yes...but it also contributes to follower-focused mentalities.
example: the information that I block someone, or mute someone, can result in negative-reinforcement-seeking behaviours in drive-by commenters.
you may see it differently. your perspective is valid. keep in mind, that to me, they're vectors of vulnerability.
There's implications on social media, especially distributed social media, when there's discussions of forks and progress.
Mostly, I just want this stuff fixed, I really don't care *how*.
We need tools that aid the existing victims seeking haven in our 'verse, and they need to know that their friends won't be harassed or overwhelmed here.
@Sylvhem It's just not worth it. These days I occasionally vote on issues, bump issues, link issues and PRs to each other to do a tiny part of steering / accountability maintenance on it, but it's just not worth it. Did a bit of work on an alternative fedi project, poked at Pleroma to learn it... at this point I'm no longer interested in contributing more than cursory effort to Mastodon, and this is entirely due to the behavior of its BDFL. *shrug*
@Sylvhem Preachin' to the choir, I've put in a number of hours in a few of those categories on the masto github. Ignored. Then denigrated with that comment.
"Thatโs my opinion, anyway. But Iโm not a dev, so what is my opinion even worth?"
...Yup, Gargamel is never gonna live that comment down about paying more attention to people who contribute pull requests because they put the time in to do actual work.
If, like me, you use Mastodon, I encourage you to read this article. Especially if you joined between July 2018 and now. It'll probably help you to understand some things. It's a little fiction about an imaginary free software project, the people working on it and its creator.
For six months this ran and mostly worked off a janky `for` loop and timer, no queue. I am extremely glad that I didn't attempt to engineer a "scalable" solution until I needed it, because I probably never would have launched it in the first place if I had (I've never implemented a message queue before).
Freedom of the Press Foundation is hiring again :)
This role has more of an administrative bent -- managing relationships with news orgs who use our services, e.g., SecureDrop support & digital security trainings -- but it also includes tier 1 support for SecureDrop, and room for technical advancement.
A great "starter" role if you want to get into tech nonprofit work, are super-organized, & are into digital security in particular. Remote -friendly (US time zones):
"As Dorsey pivoted from non-answer to non-answer, it was hard not to wonder whether, despite his appearance of media-savvy calm, he wasnโt in over his head."
Interesting to see some current ideas on fedi backpropagating to #Twitter, where they either won't be implemented, or won't be enough.
Hey fediverse folks -- is there a good model for handling closed or semi-closed 'discussion groups' that retain a poster's identity across instances?
People over in FB land use groups *a lot*, and I'm unclear how to model that in my mental map of how mastodon/etc work in an activitypub world other than separate local instances with closed timelines.
I should read up on current stuff though. :D One of these days thinking of making a tiny single-user instance app as a learning exercise.