@nerthos I agree. I would have liked to learn something like latin growing up... it's harder for me to learn a language now though. But latin would come in handy in reading old words.
@orekix Aha... funny you should say that... I was hopeless when it came to learning Portuguese and I heard it is one of the harder languages to learn. u_u
@othinus @thatbrickster @dolus There are different rules for relationships... I wanted to be sure that I was on the same page. I also do talk about this stuff. If I think someone wants more, then I am less inclined to date them. It's good to iron out the details too. It could be considered a good filter if you can determine if someone is being honest with you. I have to be more careful about who I get involved with... I'm not interested in flings or sleeping around. Guys like that don't appeal to me.
@dolus @thatbrickster It doesn't work that way for me. I already have trust issues and this sends off red flags to me. It's possible that I'm more hyper-vigilante... especially because there is more at stake for me since I want to start a family. You also know that I take things literally like jokes. But this doesn't seem like jokes to me. If I can't trust someone, there will be some worry and discomfort. You're literally telling me not to trust you but then you say I have nothing to worry about? Distance is not enough for me.
@dolus @thatbrickster Ahh... that is why you think I'm neutering him? You had a different type of relationship. As far as I'm concerned, I'm upfront about wanting an exclusive relationship. I wouldn't want to be with someone that felt differently, that felt I was neutering or shackling them to me. I would also let them go if that was what they wanted. If what I had to offer wasn't enough. It would hurt, and I would be afraid of it happening... but now you see what I have to worry about. Especially because they would mean a lot to me as Bricky does.
@dolus @thatbrickster Indeed it is. Although you still don't seem to understand where I am coming from. What is a committed relationship to you? Would you even have one?
@dolus @thatbrickster No. Aren't you the one that would rather do that because you want to dominate him? Turn him into a trap that wears skirts so you can fuck him?
There are things people do in a committed relationship, and cheating isn't it unless they are no longer committed to the relationship.
@dolus @thatbrickster Then tell me why I shouldn't worry? Especially when you've carried this on for months, indicated your interest that you would fuck him if you could and invited him over in the past? I'm going to need more than distance preventing it I think.