@celesteh I think I get what you're saying. When I last used the fediverse the software didn't yet support blocking or reporting people, and I had no sense of how well moderated it was.
At the same time, I'm uncomfortable with the idea of callouts always being considered taboo. In the same way that not talking about salaries makes it easier for pay discrimination to flourish, not talking about harrassment makes it easier for trolls to flourish.