"their lack of purpose puts them in search of a struggle"
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"their lack of purpose puts them in search of a struggle"
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society, upbringing, etc condition boys as to what men "should" be, shows us hard, stoic, independent MEN who don't have feelings or friends
then these boys are isolated, unable to process emotion, and now, unsure of what their masculinity should be
again, not that it excuses the toxic behavior, but the path to present rise of toxic masculinity is paved with the entire history of toxic male role models and we're at a societal flux point & boys don't know what to look to
okay but for real, this is actually so good? RE: why MRA is big now
"i think all of this originates in a genuine crisis of male identity...
the sacrificial role of men as warriors is no longer widely glorified or necessary. the traditional protector/provider role of men is being replaced by a more equal and undefined gender dynamic, and college professors & activists are telling men that most of our culture's aspirational representations of manhood are toxic and bad"
"i'm a good presbyterian...
and by presbyterian, i do mean pansexual heyhowareyou ;)"
my god natalie wynn is a treasure
also i know some people like puppets / this is awesome and nostalgic but for me the puppets never like, melt away. they always feel like an awkward layer on top of the story to me.
obviously they're super impressive and stuff, but they just break suspension of disbelief for me
...
idk if i can handle the Collector's wheezing and ... seeping
centaur... world?
a grave mistake
@red maybe if you pretend your gender is a craft beer you're describing they will show interest
"some notes of femme, a hint of masc, sometimes a strong air of void, its 'hoppy' too, in that it 'hops' around on different days....
"If I may play devil's advocate-" *aggressively defends existing shitty power structures*
Satan wouldn't like almost all of the "devil's advocates."
Instance admins: I'm considering building a media pool/admin alliance I'm tentatively calling "Jortage" (jean storage) because, why not. (Also the domain is available.)
I'd be willing to do initial setup and handle accounts, as well as write scripts to ease migration; the idea is we'd all pay for the server together, based on ability to pay, to the point of poorer instance admins getting to use it for free.
The approximate cost of a server with sufficient disk to self-host a future-proof shared media server and handle initial imports is $200/mo; I'm currently looking at a server with OVH in eastern Canada offering 8TB on RAID6/RAID10 with guaranteed gigabit symmetric, but am open to other suggestions. Other hosts I know of are on ColoCrossing or are far too expensive.
This would offer a viable alternative to Wasabi, S3, DigitalOcean Spaces, Azure Storage, Google Cloud Storage, et al for instance admins, with hopefully better uptime compared to Wasabi, and without being affiliated with Amazon, Google, or Microsoft. Mastodon additionally duplicates remote media, which costs everyone extra on these platforms, but on here it'd get deduplicated and be a non-issue.
If you're an instance admin and are interested, please reply to this post saying so and mention approximately how many US$ per month you could comfortably contribute ($0 is a valid answer). Also mention if you'd be willing to help with administrating the server. If you're not an instance admin, also feel free to mention how much you could contribute, if you want. I'm considering OpenCollective for managing collecting money and transparently paying server bills, but am obviously open to other suggestions.
im sleep but also not
can't follow anyone on:
- glitch.social
- anarchism.space
- chomp.life
and likely our messages aren't getting there right either
sundog from toot-lab solved this by purging the dns in his server which fixed resolving computerfairi.es
please help.
#mastoadmin
@witchfynder_finder @tom oh, simply scrolling down tells me im not the first to make this joke, oh no
i am shame
@witchfynder_finder @tom if you die in tetris, you die in real life
enbies be postin'
i guess i'm learning scala?
part of my responsibilities in tech projects is to make memes for the team, because i'm the best at it
βOne recent afternoon I stood waiting at a restaurant for a to-go meal that I had ordered the old-fashioned wayβby talking to a woman behind the counter and giving her paper money. As I waited for my lunch to be prepared, the man in front of me appeared astonished to receive his food. βHow did the app know my order would be ready twenty minutes early?β he marveled, clutching his phone. βBecause that was actually me,β the server said. βI sent you a message when it was done.β
Here was a small parable of labor and its erasure in the digital age. The app, in its eagerness to appear streamlined and just-in-time, had simply excised the relevant human party in this exchange. Hence the satisfied customer could fantasize that his food had materialized thanks to the digital interface, as though some all-seeing robot was supervising the human workers as they put together his organic rice bowl.β
βAstra Taylor (The Automation Charade)
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