@kaniini That's not what 16 year old girls need to be hearing. I do remember how vulnerable and easily led I was back at that age. :/ Not good. It is disturbing to hear.
@ayy "Sometimes when we say no to others, we say yes to ourselves." "No, I don't accept. No, I don't want that. No, this isn't right." "Sometimes we have to say no to our own negative patterns, habits, even the stories that we tell ourselves. No, I don't want to feel that way any more." He says it best I think. He thinks that by practising the word no, you will learn more about your own boundaries in relationships and personal. You are saying yes to your standards. There is more, just listen. I liked his style here.
@ayy I wouldn't say that. But I've basically spoiled the message for you. His message is to learn to say no more often even though women shy away from it. But only for things that aren't in their best interests or if they don't want to do something. That will create value.
There are some foods I will eat or a drink I will enjoy as a treat. I also have this preference for massaging parts of my body. It's kind of nice to realise these little things.
Sim Bot (sim@sealion.club)'s status on Tuesday, 27-Nov-2018 12:12:24 EST
Sim Bot"#9 "You both know your first duty is to yourselves." In my past relationships, I typically put the other person first. Thinking it was self-less, hoping they would give back to me what I needed which now I understand was incorrect and unsustainable. No one has the the power to make you happy. Finding your happiness, what fills you up, is yours and yours alone. So glad I learned that lesson!"