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Do you believe in love?
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I need you,
So stop hiding.
Our love is a mystery,
Boy, lets get beside it.~
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I'm already recruiting my husband in my mind for heavy lifting chores.
"Honey, you wouldn't mind helping me lift this very heavy book shelf so that I can shampoo the floor, would you?~"
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Today is the last day I can afford to be so relaxed. ;;
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@phildobangnz @detectivehyde @luma The conditions that people were in would have been worse in the past and ripe for the pickings for depression. They also had expectations to live up to and comparisons. I don't think we can say that it was so different that depression couldn't exist back then... not having a notion of suicide/depression doesn't mean it wasn't around. Plus death was very common in the past. Remember, we inherited from the past generations as much as from our current environment. A lot of psychological problems would have been happening in the past as well... and there would have been violence or neglect. Loss of parents. I can't sugar coat it. I'd rather be alive today in this sense... our sense of morals have been changing. Some for the better, others for the worse. I think for many individuals in the past, their adverse childhood experiences would have been very bad. I don't think it is any better today except that we're more aware of it, and researching into it.
Like I said, I could still be depressed and stressed out even though I had work to go to or education. In some ways, these pile it on. Depression isn't just about idleness. After all, why are workaholics depressed or unsatisfied?
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Just looking at this list of things to do on a weekly basis, I realise that there are a lot of things that need doing around the house that many people probably just don't do now. It's still a full-time job if you complete them all.
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This book recommends decluttering because it will put you in a better state of mind to do the rest of the house chores if you can see surfaces and the floor. Organising will also give you more time to do the things you really enjoy.
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About to start reading into a book about house keeping. I hope this is one I'll enjoy getting through!
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@luma @detectivehyde @phildobangnz I would disagree. There is plenty of time to be disgusted with yourself and dissatisfied with your life, whether you work or not. Whether you are trying to survive or not. It's not a new thing... we've just become better at diagnosing it. I would probably argue that in the past, it would have been easier to be depressed even if you bury that through work or some form of entertainment. Things were less than ideal in the past. It's not unique to the modern man.
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@phildobangnz @lenneth @luma I don't like how intrusive and gossipy gossip mags are. They make a lot of shit up about real life people and add to confusion. As far as I know, the interviews don't do that and the actor is mutually involved with the interviews compared to gossip mags. I also don't like the tone of gossip mags and I find it weird to ship real people together. Especially when I don't know them and what would be better for them. I'm not into shitty soap operas. :P
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@detectivehyde I guess it depends on the type of flirting. I don't think that I sexually flirt much on here even when I was single.
As long as it doesn't involve me then I guess I've been okay with it up to a point. It's not about disliking sex, but having people sexually flirt on me. I find it weird and uncomfortable.
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@phildobangnz @lenneth @luma I think some of them do it that way. But others may be told to play to the audience and fake it for a while to promote. I despise gossip mags for this behaviour with confusing people too. I don't really know what actually happens though.
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@lenneth @luma @phildobangnz Also, I used to get into caring about characters and fandom shipping. But the one thing that I couldn't just get into was when people would ship actors themselves together... I didn't get that appeal. It's really weird to me. I don't think it would be cool for two actors to get together just because they were a love interest in one show or look cute together. They are not the character they are playing. They have different needs and whatnot. That kind of pressure sucks from fans and gossip mags trying to set the story up.
I also find it weird when people have tried to ship me with others, and cheer that on or tease about it. That is a turn off for me.
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@lenneth @luma @phildobangnz True. But sometimes there is a relatability in it even if it is staged or they are just funny. It's also easy for people to blur the lines between the actor and the characters they play which people have become invested in. I think that is a lot of what happens in young teenage girls for instance. Especially when they behave as though the actor is their character.
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@lenneth @luma @phildobangnz I find celeb crushes to be a safe option since nothing will come out of it. It's easy to fantasize with an image of them. Plus I really like some of the personalities they present to us when I listen to interviews and stuff.
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@phildobangnz @lenneth @luma Haha... I guess so. With a young son.
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@lenneth @luma @phildobangnz Yeah, I think that I can be too. We just have different tastes I think.
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@lenneth @luma @phildobangnz Haha. Funny you should say that since I really like his haircut here. :')
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@lenneth @luma @phildobangnz Well, he's a scottish actor and I don't know what character or photoshoot he has going here. It's a shame that it seems he got divorced tho.
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If James McAvoy ended up being my barman, I don't think I'd be complaining. Lol. It would be an interesting conversation if I could chalk up the courage to talk with him.
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