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@luma @phildobangnz I think this is hawt, and I don't think it has extra padding to make his shoulders look bigger. He doesn't need it. https://sealion.club/attachment/1204776
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There is nothing quite like a smartly dressed man.
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@phildobangnz @luma Look, even without the padding it is hawt. I like seeing guys in the white shirt alone, or with a waistcoat. There is just something about that look which does it for me. Can't say I got into the biker look.
Tbh, I think I would prefer the suit over what I had to wear growing up.
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@luma That sucks that you feel like you don't want to talk to girls at all. I hope that changes but I know it can be difficult when you have issues with socialising. I hope your GF is a good influence for you there. It's important that we have someone we can practice having a healthy relationship with, whatever we figure out that is for ourselves.
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@phildobangnz @luma Why? Suits are hawt.
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@luma Ahh... that makes sense! Although you'd probably have to dress the material down in the summer so it's not as thick like for wintertimes. And ditch the jacket. :')
An all boys school... I'm curious, how would you say that has effected your ability to communicate with girls?
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@luma Aww. That sucks. Suits are very manly. And can be made womanly too if designed with the female body in mind.
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>When you find gay men attractive.
Oh gawd.
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@luma Ehh... I guess that isn't as hawt as wearing a suit which is what some schools ask. Unless I misunderstood.
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@luma Yeah, but there are different types. When I went to school, it was a polo shirt, jumpers and trousers.
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@luma What sort of uniform is it out of curiosity?
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@kameyosek Yeah, at that point in my life it wasn't something that I wanted to compromise on. Now I don't really like sharing images of myself online... it's really weird to see. I was quite an attention seeker growing up, because I was lonely and I didn't know what healthy boundaries looked like. I feel embarrassed in hindsight.
But I am glad that I didn't develop this habit for 'courtship'. Yeah, I can see that becoming annoying as well. She is projecting her insecurities onto you and trying to gain validation through you. Which is not really a good thing. It comes back to the expectations of modern dating and whether people realise what a healthy relationship looks like. I'm still figuring that one out too.
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Honestly, I still feel like there is an innocence and naivety about me... or maybe ignorance.
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@kameyosek I'd like to think that the images that were sort of revealing didn't end up that way... but you never know when it comes to messaging sites.
Still, it wouldn't surprise me if someone decided to shit on me given the platform I used, and barely knowing me. I'm just glad I didn't share revealing images through that site unlike through private messaging.
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I was very naive at the time and gave into pressure. I probably did like posing at the time though... I was never really taught how to handle that sort of attention. I had to learn the hard way.
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@kameyosek Oh gawd. Please no.
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Let me tell you, when I was a teenager I already did the whole revealing kind-of revealing images of myself to a few guys. God knows if those images of me underage (And perhaps one or two not) are still out there on some computer or what happened to them. I have little incentive to add to it now. I did not feel good about sharing those. I'm just glad that for the most part, I was covered up in them by something so they weren't full on nudes.
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"It's just a bit of cleavage." is not something that I would want to hear when I'm looking for a potential partner. Persistence to see an image of my breasts is also not something I want to hear. Pressuring in this manner is such a turn off. Especially when I've indicated that I'm not that type of person.
I get the appeal and desire though. I just don't want to be asked for such an image... and made to feel like my concerns are dismissed as nothing. If you can't even listen to me about something as big as this then I don't know what to say... we're not compatible. I never did talk to that guy after that discussion died down...
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@fl0wn Then I'm rooting for you!
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@detectivehyde Tell me about it. Maybe he felt that way because of the platform we were on... but I don't feel like I ever gave them the impression I was a woman like that. He would have had to meet me in person to see because I wasn't about to share such photos on there at that time. ;;
Also, I'm not very good at being sexually flirted on. I don't feel comfortable with that, and perhaps less so now.
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