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"Anyways, from a male perspective, we are visual creatures. We appreciate female physical beauty and while it's not the only thing that matters, it is important that we find our wives physically beautiful. At the same time, we aren't expecting a model or anything like that. We just want a woman who takes care of herself and puts a reasonable amount of effort. That's all."
I like this take.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6v38HIzpqU
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@epsiloco Haha... yes. Overly creepy and clingy is a red flag on both sides.
In a way, it is kinda sad how there is more approach anxiety. I think it is down to all the mixed signals men get... and of course, it's hard if you are more introverted or don't have the socialisation skills necessary, or you have insecurities about rejection or how a woman will take your approach. It's just such a mess.
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"When the woman starts chasing, that basically makes her the man and they lose interest." What do you guys think?
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@karen Definitely. I think lots of people have doubts about their body or prettiness. It's also easy to think that people are just being nice or polite about the things we doubt when it is brought up. I wondered if you found this relatable. How you measure this yourself.
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@karen I'm curious about this mindset. If your girlfriend or family were to say you looked pretty here, would you believe it or would they just be saying it too?
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@icedquinn Yes and no. It depends on the guy, really. I don't want her to marry and have children with a guy who will seriously break her heart, or who is just playing around as so many do these days with hookup culture. I don't want guys to think they can weasel in because she is left vulnerable. A lot of it will be trial and error, and I don't doubt that her heart will be broken before she finds that special someone. Most of it will be down to her. I just hope that I can provide a family foundation that will benefit her so that she can avoid much of the horrors out there for young women.
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If I were in America, then I'd probably be the one cleaning my gun when my daughter brings home guys interested in her. Just to show them that she is protected. Lol.
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Create the content and topics you want to see on fedi and a small part of it will become about that.
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"I'm not religious and I never considered myself traditional but I'm finding that maybe there are parts of me that are (traditional) . And since I've embraced my role at home I have found so much satisfaction out of my life. Instead of worrying about everything I'm focusing on my kids, my family, my husband, my home and myself."
Relatable.
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@rice That is true. I can't say I've ever been high maintenance... but I feel like I should have been where it counts. Like buying quality clothing and looking after myself. Not into all the vanity stuff though.
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@eidolon0 I wasn't too sure... but again, it seems to vary from what I'm looking at. All I can say is that I wouldn't want to put revealing clothes on my daughter at five years old... I want her to be the child she is rather than becoming sexualised. I was also thinking that I wouldn't put her into those fashion shows some mothers do before all this came up. It's bad enough when young women are sexualised by those around them... likewise for young men.
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@thatbrickster @quad @moonman I think it was Vivera... I recall that brand and packaging.
That really is unfortunate. Who the fuck calls a burger a disc? This is ridiculous. They really want to make it harder for people trying to offer alternatives, don't they? If I didn't know any better, I'd say the industry sounds quite threatened now. We've had alternatives for burgers for so long now and it has worked out.
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"From the moment we met to the moment we got married was a year and a half."
Well, shit.
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"Getting married."
#Lifegoal
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""high maintenance" is also a way to insult a woman who just takes care of HERSELF"
Yeah, you naughty boys. Don't call women high maintenance... they just want to take care of themselves !!
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Fortunately, there are some vintage dresses out there which don't look too revealing so it's not so bad a suggestion.
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I'm not sure how I feel about vintage dresses on a five year old... I will definitely not be willing to put revealing clothes on my little girl. I do not want people sexualising her when she should enjoy being a child rather than worrying about all this.
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@rice I think you'll like this one...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3s3odmncVEY
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I'm really not sure I'm making porridge right... ;;
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