even the relationship between jake and his dad seemed to be kinda tense? like, ben would often be pretty dismissive of what jake wanted and even sometimes quite controlling and mean, and expected jake to always be "strong" just like him.
it took half the show until we finally got episodes where jake started to be allowed to soften up and be more openly human
that could be a purposeful character flaw in ben sisko but...if it was, it never felt properly addressed