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@zemichi @djabadu This is why you usually look away or look down when passing people in the street. I can understand it not being comforting to be stared at as I get this feeling. Some people extend this to images, perhaps it reminds them of this anxiety they have and the brain responds to it in the same way. However, images can't hurt them and exposure therapy when they are ready is best for that rather than hiding it.Β
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@detectivehyde @awg @sumika @liangbeijiu Glad to hear this. When I get a new hard drive, my posts will get much better again. :')
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@liangbeijiu @awg @detectivehyde Glad it helped! I hope you feel more confident to respond to people in future. If it worries you, it may also be better to reach out and ask rather than remain paralysed by mind reading thought patterns.Β
I did indeed mean your post. I don't think you are recognised on here and the thread breaks for me to bother trying to reach the op, especially doesn't help being on mobile. I'm on GS/qvitter which works differently.
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@sumika @awg @liangbeijiu @detectivehyde True... It is hard to escape dickish people on platforms like this. Sometimes makes me rethink about being as open as I am. But in those cases, when people are rude and don't want me to reply I wonder why they are on a social media platform in the first place since I am using it as intended. I suppose it depends on your mindset. Either way, I don't want either of you to think you can't message me. It is not a bother. I may not always respond but I do read what is sent my way.
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@rye @hakui Ah.Β Explains why I'm lost. :')
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Goodnight, fedi. Sleep well and take care! I'm rather sleepy now. :') ps don't forget to keep water at your side. Drink it well!
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@awg @liangbeijiu @detectivehyde I will say this before I sleep; it is sad when people assume they are bothering us when replying to posts. The tools before us are intended for use of communicating. They are wasted if we do not use them. The purpose of social media is to post messages and reply to them, to talk to each other wherever we may be. It is but a precious and beautiful gift. Would you not wish that people interacted with your posts rather than remaining mute lest they bother you? Would it not be best that unless stated otherwise, people desire that communication you can offer them? To know that you are not just shouting into a void, because someone else listens and shouts into the same void back to you. Don't squander this beautiful opportunity. Use it wisely and you will learn more, or just have some fun with it. (This is my response to an earlier post, BTW. I don't think I can directly respond to it.)
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I stayed up too long in order to read. Rip me. It was really sad and there didn't seem to be a good point to pause. Darn cliffhangys!
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@rye @hakui What does that mean?
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@hakui @rye *retweet*
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I like a varied day.
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When I get a new hard drive, I really need to make an effort to talk to the regulars more on fedi, tbh. It'll be nice while I'm also trying to make an effort IRL.
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@xj9 Sounds manipulative to me, tbh. If he truly realised the importance of family time then he wouldn't pull shit like this. The fault lies with him, and whoever set these ridiculous targets. This is supposed to be the time for family, not setting short targets for work. The rest of the year is basically work time bar other holidays. Couldn't he get someone else to do this? Or put it off until the week after new years?
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Frustration and anger are powerful tools that call the aid of your inner personalities together to fend off the threat. Without it, it is easy to be paralysed by self-doubt and fear, by second-guessing or beating yourself up over something.
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@xj9Β This really is taking the piss. Like CTO doesn't realise the boundaries being trampled over here. No respect.
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I really don't know how I'm going to heal myself at this point. Depression and anxiety are deeply rooted like some of the thoughts I tell myself relating to them. I'm not sure how to deweed my mind right now.
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@moonman Hope you don't lose too much of the good stuff!
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I prefer the taste of chocolate to the taste of oil/soy sauce tbh.
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@newt Yeah. That isΒ how it goes for me. I don't set out to date either so things just happen naturally as you talk and bond with people. Get closer and figure out how compatible you are.
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@kaniini Glad to hear. I'd feel pretty useless otherwise. :')
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