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@ayy Yeah... Interesting how it turned out and shifted for me.
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Listening to this conversation by a confessed sugar daddy... and his voice reminds me of DT. ;;
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@lain I'm merely a capitalist against consumerism!
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#WinterBoots https://sealion.club/attachment/2568456
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#WinterBoots https://sealion.club/attachment/2568442
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#WinterBoots https://sealion.club/attachment/2568441
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#WinterBoots https://sealion.club/attachment/2568440
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#WinterBoots https://sealion.club/attachment/2568436
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#WinterBoots https://sealion.club/attachment/2568421
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#WinterBoots
https://sealion.club/attachment/2568413
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Whoops... you can tell I had to take a screen shot for that photo because I didn't want to mess about with it. :')
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#WinterBoots These look so nice.
https://sealion.club/attachment/2568394
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It'll be nice to attend a christmas party. Don't think I did anything last year.
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Gender wars only serve to poison the well of gender relations further. Disadvantaging one gender for the other poisons it. The disadvantaged party has a legitimate complaint... but it is never solved by trying to destroy the other. Especially for something so broad as gender.
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@nepfag @luma All I can say is that I understand where you are coming from. I hate how poisoned the well has become in these regards. This is not what I want for children... nor for my husband. I know how important dad's are to the development of their children... and I wouldn't want to split them up. I know not everyone feels the same way I do but I can only hope in time they see for themselves.
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@luma I wouldn't say you are late at all! :)
You know, for the longest time I felt that way too. It's quite a pervasive thought that takes time to dismantle. I guess the question becomes... do you want children? If the only thing is your trust in yourself keeping you from that then you need to work on that. Remember, no one is perfect... we're all fucked up to varying degrees, and the hope is that as time goes on... each generation will correct the mistakes of the last.
I think you'd be a good dad if you can be active in your children's lives, if you can meet their needs... if you can listen to and play with them. But most importantly, be honest with yourself about your habits and behaviour, be able to communicate what those are with your children when appropriate and try to mitigate its impact on them. Be able to admit to your faults rather than getting defensive about them. Give them the advantage in life of having a role model that can admit his flaws and play to his strengths while he works on the flaws.
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It's like I'm always searching for a way to be enough.
It's always me + something elusive = enough...
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@delores @moonman Hasn't deterred me either!
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"i dont get the appeal of having kids *at all*" Guess you don't have the maternal instincts or desire to settle down to start a family of your own.
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Forget your balls, and grow a pair of tits, It's hard, it's hard out here for a bitch.~
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