@nerthos @awg @dirb That is where a lot of the indifference would come from though. But there is likely enough drama in peoples own lives to be adding more on top.
@nerthos @awg @dirb Well, I would agree if you are talking about the admin. But I don't think I need an opinion on all the drama that ensues. Especially if I wasn't there when it happened and don't have the context.
@phildobangnz Well, I assumed you were attracted or attracting the same broken women that you mentioned here. Which means the same can be applied. It can seem that way. But it is likely a conditioning that they aren't even aware of themselves. Plus it is hard to choose who you fall in love with... take it from me. It can creep up on you even when you didn't intend to fall in love or have a crush on someone. Either way, it is hard to spot the conditioning unless you have something healthy to contrast it with. To some degree, I don't think we choose who or what we find attractive... but we can choose if we act upon it.
@mitsu @guizzy @dd86k I'll let you in on a little secret, I have many flaws and my physique is crap too... but there will be someone out there for you. Especially if you keep working at yourself. It will be noticed. You've got this... keep going! Keep learning about yourself, keep growing as you take actions to improve and keep listening to yourself so you know what needs you need to meet to feel healthier.