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@marmite Really? I see it more in guys on fedi, and the women are the ones that find it really weird when done to them. :') My sample size isn't very high though... but I haven't come across it in women in the same way as I mean here.
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@chazcon Hmm. My brain isn't very good at logicing this. The kick doesn't seem to make it funny for me? If something repulses me then I'm stuck on that loop rather than finding it funny, you know? I take it quite literally... and the thought is weird to me. I've found it weird to involve real people I know for this.
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@debbie @augustus @thatbrickster RIP. It involved at least two memes in my mind. :')
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I still don't understand when guys will make lewd suggestions as a joke with each other... involving each other.
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@debbie @augustus @thatbrickster How did you understand it?
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@thatbrickster @kaniini Good point. Not sure he is back yet... RIP.
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@thatbrickster @kaniini Or was that DT? : thinking :
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@augustus @thatbrickster Haha. I shall just have to bring my own grill to the fedi!
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@mitsu You're welcome. Best of luck with this! It's never fun to keep guessing why someone would find you attractive and still not understand it!
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@augustus @thatbrickster Damn. Now how do I grill my sammich or hamburger?
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@mitsu I'm not sure I've convinced you here. But I think you are on the right track to keep thinking it over in your mind. I know it is difficult to see, especially if you have body image issues or BDD... which I am inclined towards as well. It's easy to let the negative aspects overshadow the positives, assuming you even think your positive attributes are attractive. It often takes looking at it from an angle that isn't your own or from a distance. So I hope you keep thinking about it regardless, and hopefully you will come to your own conclusion that works for you.
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@nameface You do this thing?!
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@mitsu No problem. You don't come across as someone I'd see very often either. So ones location might play a role in that. I bet if you think about it, you can come up with a few physical traits that are attractive on you... and it only takes that for someone to show interest in you over that aspect. But also remember there is more to it than looks even in women, there is personality, behaviour, how you think, what your interests are, etc. It kind of goes together. It is easy to get lost in the parts you don't like about yourself or to think there is nothing that sets you a part from others... but it is all a perspective thing and it is good to remember that.
It might also be good to accept that you might never understand why someone else finds you attractive but they do. I'm still working on this one.
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@wowaname No problem. I thought you were adding your view on it rather than that. Socially awkward could be what you referred to as well.
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@roko From their spouse? That seems screwed up to me. Although there are some contexts where it would be okay... like if you get into a sport that allows punching the face. Not sure if boxing is one. I suppose it can feel exhilarating to get into a fight. Buuut... I don't think a relationship should be like that. It just ends up being communication issues. (Unless it is just practice for self-defence or something)
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Also... if she is the girl in her icon then she is black, and very likely doing this because that is the example that she grew up with in her household. She doesn't know how to have a peaceful relationship with boys.
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"I'm violent towards boys I like. Idk why but I think it's cuz I want to see how he'd handle my attitude if we're ever together. I'm strange 😂"
Or you are abusive and have no respect/love for these guys. And you will probably continue it into your relationship. It's fucked up. No one deserves a violent and abusive partner.
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@vriska So god is the ultimate mother figure rather than father figure? : thinking :
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@wowaname That is a plus sign. I'm just socially awkward... it doesn't mean I want to date someone necessarily. I get very nervous when I get freaked out by what someone does to me. If someone thinks I'm attracted to them because I'm nervous then they will likely end up being overly-friendly and freak me out even more.
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Guys, I'm really worried. Apparently being nervous around someone means I'm attracted to them. This isn't going to be socially awkward at all to explain...
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