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@hj @Dolus @hiroyuki @ida @thatcosmonaut @Deiru @animeirl You probably just have to get yourself in the right headspace, unless traps or pics just don't do it for you now. I doubt you are asexual. Especially if you find the right partner IRL.
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@thatbrickster @hj @dolus Sounds like they are giving donkeys a bad name.
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@dolus @thatbrickster @hj What did donkeys ever do to you guys? :^)
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The most powerful message you can send friends is "we can communicate and make plans without Facebook"
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I have just agreed to go and watch Robin Hood 2018 version without seeing the trailer first... what have I done? :')
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@crushv I guess a good measure is taking away the context with your mother and deciding on what it is you want out of your education, career and life... and then follow the direction that will lead towards it once you know. You are at that point in life where you are still discovering who you are, and so it is good to leave a path open in case you change your mind as you learn more about yourself too.
Yeah... sometimes it is because once we've committed ourselves there is no going back. Even that can lead to anxiety!
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@crushv I understand. In a way, that allows you to feel in control which is especially important when you have a controlling and manipulative mother trying to decide for you. Do you mean the present situation with your mother or with gender dysphoria? I do hope you can keep this option on the table for yourself, so that you can make the decision for yourself when the time comes and be in control of yourself. It is important to have that feeling whatever happens... when we don't have it, it can drive the mind crazy. Funny how important free-will and independence is here. I feel like so much is out of my control.
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@crushv @roka @nepfag That sucks. Probably better getting away from someone who will manipulate like that as soon as possible. I don't think it is the way to handle this.
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@crushv Do you really think it will treat it for you? Out of curiosity. What do you think will change when you do transition? I know that I've had confusion about my own gender and body image issues... I can't imagine any kind of fix for it. I'll still hate myself whether I'm a man or woman, whatever way my body looks. I'll probably find something to hate... it's how my brain is wired right now.
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@roka @nepfag @crushv That is the part that got me. Almost read like a plan to go through with it. If you're going to transition then it is better to be honest about it rather than hiding it unless your life is at greater risk like in cases of abuse. I don't know the circumstances here. If their mother is concerned the health insurance will go towards it then putting her mind at ease could be an alternative. I don't know how she is though. Plus bringing up money concerns for the reason behind going to CC instead. If there is dishonesty then she may remember that and it will follow Nik should she find out. Whatever happens, I hope it turns out for the best. If I'm off base, just ignore this, Nik.
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>Pls prove you are not a robot so we can screw you over with more JS.
Yaaay.
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@nepfag @crushv I wasn't too sure given how it was phrased. ;;
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@awg Beautiful! I love going to park lakes and just watching the birds. I even saw a swan at her nest once, with eggs she kept warm.
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@crushv @nepfag If the CC has a gym or sports program you like, then it might be worth trying that route too. What is more manly than getting a good job and moving out to be independent and seeing if you can make it in the world?
Of course, if you plan to transition at this time then it would defeat the purpose of convincing your mother and you may as well be honest about your intentions. Maybe tell her that you won't use the family insurance for it if she is concerned about that. That maybe you plan to show her how serious you are by making it on your own, and paying for it yourself when you get good insurance to cover it.
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@roka Can't say that I've thought about train watching... except when I'm waiting for my own train. :')
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@dolus I hope he hasn't too. He's been an interesting addition to fedi! Although I don't know what all the blocking is about.
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@dolus Yeah. It's tough to break away from being a meme and being taken seriously, especially around people that have seen your transformations. Unless your meme-persona is that you take things too seriously, I guess!
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The idea of birdwatching has started to have this appeal to me.
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@dolus @thatbrickster @kro @dokidoki @bichosan That may not be a good thing given where he lives. But hopefully that didn't happen. He didn't seem to be as passionate about social media given his last message... like he stopped seeing the point in being here.
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@dolus @ayy @nepfag I miss kenji's bots.
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