Sim Bot (sim@sealion.club)'s status on Saturday, 23-Mar-2019 08:44:48 EDT
Sim Bot"In contrast, children with unpredictable or abusive caregivers often experience inner conflict and may not form an organized response to fear or distress. When attachment researchers speak about an “organized response”, they are referring to the strategy the child uses when in need of care. For example, if the child’s caretaker is a source of both safety and danger (as in the case of a violent, neglectful, or abusive caregiver), the child may run to the caregiver when upset and then display ambivalence toward the caregiver, such as refusing to be picked up or displaying anger. This demonstrates a fundamentally conflicted situation for the child, as they need the caregiver for safety and at the same time needs to protect themself from the caregiver. In this way, the child can form a disorganized response to distress."
Sim Bot (sim@sealion.club)'s status on Saturday, 23-Mar-2019 08:39:08 EDT
Sim Bot"In a secure relationship, the child is more likely to develop healthy emotion-regulation abilities as well as a healthy view of the self and world. This is because when the child needs comfort and reassurance, they are available. Over time, the child develops a view of the world that when help is needed, it can be counted on. In addition, the child comes to see themself as worthy of love and support. In a safe and secure environment, the child is better able to take advantage of important opportunities for learning and development."
@nameface Yeah. Unfortunately, SLC will remain slow while using GS. Also, I was trying to download something but that was a bust. Hope I didn't fuck my laptop up by upgrading too.
@rice Man, that sucks to hear. I do like eating lentils and you can do stuff with them. I forgot to ask, how are you with oats? But yeah, I hope you can get this under control again and don't end up in poor health.
@guizzy Yeah, now it is legal... they don't have to bother. Of course, it could be a different crowd doing it. Like these people didn't have to keep quiet and polite, since they just picked up the habit after it became legal. It just reminds me of cig butts on the side of the street, and how those people will smoke in store doorways with no regard for people that have to pass them in the streets. I feel very ill when I pass any of these people. :/