:milly: : Trouble Magnet
If you fuck up.... That's okay! It happens.
What you need to do then is legitimately apologise, actually understand where you went wrong, and then fix it. Make a legit effort to learn and fix it.
You get called racist? We are all unlearning generations of racism. Just admit it, apologize, learn why it was racist, and correct yourself.
No need to make a scene. No matter how embarrassed you are.
Just apologize and move on. You can gush about your embarrassment later, after you patched it over.
El Norte Recuerda π΅π·
terfs+ white nationalists+white feminism all operate together in harmony and if you participate in one you support the other.
thems the facts
El Norte Recuerda π΅π·
terfs+ white nationalists+white feminism all operate together in harmony and if you participate in one you support the other.
thems the facts
Chris
@anna stop and provide a genuine apology. Stop accusing people of shit like you did just yesterday, and stop trying to gaslight.
Right now you are told your motives are racist because youβre acting like a racist by trying to pin all of this shit on a black man - who wasnβt even related to the incident in this case.
If you genuinely want to work with PV and improve your reputation, make a genuine apology, and follow through on the commitment to improve that comes with it.
You should apologize to popstar first since you came after her, then Ro and everyone else after.
Some thing
It's hip to feel and express genuine love and closeness
El Norte Recuerda π΅π·
If your homies are the very ppl usually standing across those you profess to care abt then maybe you need new homies and self reflection
boxing dank
in a sense, it's ok to fuck up. you are going to fuck up. everyone is fucking up constantly. just say sorry, sincerely commit to doing better, and make changes. what isnt ok is fucking up and then being dismissive of the people you hurt.
Chris
@canary social.libre.fi is as well
Plantifa :antifa_ancom:
Since there seems to be an issue with some admins being racists or misics, I'm just gonna list out all the servers I know are modded by Black, Indigenous folx or PoC. Often, this means there will be an overlap with queer, disabled, kin, neurodivergent communities. Some of these servers will not be taking new users, but they still serve as a great model for what to look for, IMO.
elekk.xyz
Myasstodon.xyz
Friend.camp
Monsterpit.net
Ecosteader.com
Playviscious.social
Let me know if I'm forgetting or missing any!
boxing dank
literally all of this could have been avoided with a simple unqualified apology. i hope this can be a lesson to us all
Conny Duck
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El Norte Recuerda π΅π·
I don't think it's appropriate to go into ppl's DM's after long back and forths on heavier topics to apologize or meet ppl 'in the middle'...
Esp if it wasn't consensual. I stand by that. If both parties didn't agree to move to dm's, why are you suddenly moving your half apology to dm's?
Ppl using dm's to avoid public accountability are to be kept at a distance, imo.
Chris
:star:
i'm so annoyed. i can't believe this is still being debated.
someone came at me with racial, transphobic slurs. i reported them and then posted the screenshot to warn people to stay away from them because that's what you are supposed to do when someone attacks you.
thats it. that's all. i had no ill will against w.l. i said nothing about w.l or anna, i indicated nothing in the fault of her administrating. i didn't even know who she was until two days ago. anything else is fabricated.
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